It's true. Back in 2008 two elderly women were convicted of running over and killing a homeless man for his life insurance. How did they know he had life insurance you may query? They took the policy out on him. They took the policy out, put him in an apartment for two years (the minimum I guess you have to live to get awarded the policy), then they got him drunk and drugged up, dumped him in an alley, backed up and gunned the SUV, and ran over him and killed him. Unfortunately, as bright as these two ladies might appear to be, when they ran over the gentleman, they damaged the undercarriage of their SUV and called a tow truck. Darwin awards anyone? They will spend the rest of their lives in prison.
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Sunday, July 22, 2012
Olga(75) to Helen(77) Let's Run Over the Homeless Guy and other Useful Info
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It's true. Back in 2008 two elderly women were convicted of running over and killing a homeless man for his life insurance. How did they know he had life insurance you may query? They took the policy out on him. They took the policy out, put him in an apartment for two years (the minimum I guess you have to live to get awarded the policy), then they got him drunk and drugged up, dumped him in an alley, backed up and gunned the SUV, and ran over him and killed him. Unfortunately, as bright as these two ladies might appear to be, when they ran over the gentleman, they damaged the undercarriage of their SUV and called a tow truck. Darwin awards anyone? They will spend the rest of their lives in prison.
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It's true. Back in 2008 two elderly women were convicted of running over and killing a homeless man for his life insurance. How did they know he had life insurance you may query? They took the policy out on him. They took the policy out, put him in an apartment for two years (the minimum I guess you have to live to get awarded the policy), then they got him drunk and drugged up, dumped him in an alley, backed up and gunned the SUV, and ran over him and killed him. Unfortunately, as bright as these two ladies might appear to be, when they ran over the gentleman, they damaged the undercarriage of their SUV and called a tow truck. Darwin awards anyone? They will spend the rest of their lives in prison.
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Tuesday, July 17, 2012
Buck Naked and Some Really Did Look Like George Costanza (Shrinkage!)
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I was looking at a map of Nantucket...please, no. Don't do it. Their once was a girl from Nantucket, who said, if you want you can...Stop! There are too many variations for that ending. Buuuutt, while looking at the map, I noticed there was a "fat ladies beach" and a "nude beach". Whiiiicchhhh brings back memories of our Windstar Cruise which had a stop in Mykonos. There were three couples in our group. We were and still are dear friends. One of the guys had, without the rest of us knowing about it, via guide books scoped out the nudest beaches on Mykonos. Read more...
I was looking at a map of Nantucket...please, no. Don't do it. Their once was a girl from Nantucket, who said, if you want you can...Stop! There are too many variations for that ending. Buuuutt, while looking at the map, I noticed there was a "fat ladies beach" and a "nude beach". Whiiiicchhhh brings back memories of our Windstar Cruise which had a stop in Mykonos. There were three couples in our group. We were and still are dear friends. One of the guys had, without the rest of us knowing about it, via guide books scoped out the nudest beaches on Mykonos. Read more...
Sunday, July 8, 2012
FRSO: F**k- Room Service-Shower-Out: Book review for The Kings of Cool and Savages
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Savages came out in 2010. Don Winslow, the author, said he got so many questions about the main characters in Savages that he just had to write a prequel. The Kings of Cool, which was published in 2012, was to satisfy his reading public but because he also already "knew their backstories."
The first chapter of The Kings of Cool is "F**k me." The first chapter of Savages is "F**k you." That's it. Those are two chapters. In both novels, Winslow uses, as I would call it, stream of consciousness writing. As it comes into his head, that's the way he writes it. Two words for two chapters? Puts a real powerhouse in those words. The writing is interspersed with screen play dialog: Read more...
Savages came out in 2010. Don Winslow, the author, said he got so many questions about the main characters in Savages that he just had to write a prequel. The Kings of Cool, which was published in 2012, was to satisfy his reading public but because he also already "knew their backstories."
The first chapter of The Kings of Cool is "F**k me." The first chapter of Savages is "F**k you." That's it. Those are two chapters. In both novels, Winslow uses, as I would call it, stream of consciousness writing. As it comes into his head, that's the way he writes it. Two words for two chapters? Puts a real powerhouse in those words. The writing is interspersed with screen play dialog: Read more...
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Absinthe the Truth
Back in the late '80's when I was a newbie sales rep for a major cruise line, I flew to San Antonio. When I got off of the plane, I went to the rest room. I had on a long, peasant style skirt. I exited the rest room...you know where this is going don't you? It took a full 4-5 minutes, with all kinds of people deplaning before a woman rushed up to me and told me my skirt was stuck in my panties. Soooo, that meant my rear was in view for 4-5 minutes. I can understand why a guy wouldn't tell me. But why that long for another woman? Because some people just would rather not bring it to your attention. Why? Because it might embarrass me? Come on. You either know someone who is like that OR you YOURSELF is like that. Read more...
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Monday, June 25, 2012
Book Review: Beautiful Ruins A Novel by Jess Walter
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In 1997, Mr. Walter and his wife took a trip to Italy and visited the Cinque Terre region. He says he was blown away by the beauty and how “evocative” it was. At the time, his mother also had cancer. Both of these aspects of his life figure into the narrative of this great read…beach or otherwise. To set the stage (remember this prepositional phrase), I will start by giving you a list of characters that somehow all become connected in a 6 degrees of separation sort of way. Read more...
In 1997, Mr. Walter and his wife took a trip to Italy and visited the Cinque Terre region. He says he was blown away by the beauty and how “evocative” it was. At the time, his mother also had cancer. Both of these aspects of his life figure into the narrative of this great read…beach or otherwise. To set the stage (remember this prepositional phrase), I will start by giving you a list of characters that somehow all become connected in a 6 degrees of separation sort of way. Read more...
Monday, June 11, 2012
Danged Squirrels and Hard German Noggins...
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The continual skirmishes between the owner of a bird feeder and the ever resourceful, ingenious squirrel sometimes makes you just want to give in. You can go to any bird store online or one near you, and they always have some new gadget or food that should deter the squirrels. Some people even create their own devices. I know one elderly gentleman (who apparently didn't have much to do) who rigged his feeder with a low voltage electrical current. He'd stand by his window and wait for the squirrels. As soon as he'd see a squirrel mount the feeder...zap! It didn't kill the squirrel just stunned him a bit.
My success with the squirrel battle is the Droll Yankee Flipper. Read more...
The continual skirmishes between the owner of a bird feeder and the ever resourceful, ingenious squirrel sometimes makes you just want to give in. You can go to any bird store online or one near you, and they always have some new gadget or food that should deter the squirrels. Some people even create their own devices. I know one elderly gentleman (who apparently didn't have much to do) who rigged his feeder with a low voltage electrical current. He'd stand by his window and wait for the squirrels. As soon as he'd see a squirrel mount the feeder...zap! It didn't kill the squirrel just stunned him a bit.
Monday, June 4, 2012
A Russian trilogy by Tom Rob Smith
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For those of the baby boom age, remember when we did drills in case of a nuclear bomb, we covered our heads and got under our desks? Remember how real and potentially catastrophic the Cuban missile crisis was? Do they still teach the cold war in school today? Do the kids even know about Stalin? I'm a wannabe history teacher...anyway...
I thought that since the hunkster, ex KGB punkster, Vladimir Putin, was once again in charge of mother Russia, I’d review the three secret police thrillers by Smith. I’m going to digress here to make a point. I recently finished a nonfiction book about the only North Korean prisoner to ever escape from a North Korean internment camp. He had been born there. So for him lying, tattling, turning on family, lack of love, lack of attachment was a way of life. There was no moral compass. For the people of Russia, they have lived this type of life since almost the beginning of their history. First the Tsars, then Lenin, Stalin, and the multitude of following leaders who kept the Russian people all under their thumbs and afraid to move or speak in fear of being turned in to the secret police, whether there was guilt or not. The Russian leaders looked at the state they created as a utopia, a workers’ paradise where only political crimes occurred.
Leo Stepanovich Demidov is a hero of the great patriotic war against Hitler. It’s now 1953 and he’s a MGB (KGB precursor) officer knowing that to stay safe he must be relentless in his job and never, ever question authority. While routinely investigating the death of a young boy, he is asked by the boy’s father to look further because he knows, he just knows, that the death is a murder. If Leo decides to do this, he could be thrown into a situation that could cost him his life as well as the lives of his wife and adopted daughters. Through further, surreptitious fact gathering, Leo begins to believe there is a real murder spree going on. When he brings this possibility up to his superiors, it’s NYET! Not in Soviet society! All is peace and calm and violent crime is only manifested in a capitalist society! Leo must follow his wife because she may be an enemy of the state (does he really trust her? Does she trust him?). Is he an enemy of the state by pursuing this case or is he (by the Soviets) considered a true hero because he tortures those he is told to torture without asking any questions? It’s a stifling and suffocating environment Smith creates with enough Stalin era violence and paranoia to abound. The book is based on the Rostov Ripper case. It’s the best of the three and really good enough to make you want to read The Secret Speech.
We are now going to get more up close and personal with Leo and his wife, Raisa, and their two adopted daughters, Zoya and Elena (their parents had been killed by Leo’s forces). The Secret Speech is set in 1956 and Leo now has a squad of homicide detectives helping him with cases. Supposedly Khrushchev gives a speech, behind closed doors, that decries Stalin era tactics and the Soviet Union will be more of a benevolent society. NYET! Say the old timers. But those that were tortured, exiled, and the families of those that were killed will not let the “old timers” get away with it. Mix that in with the criminal element and you’ve got a big pot of borsht. The catalyst to the story is that a member of this group remembers Leo and what he had done to someone they knew and loved. Reprisals begin getting Leo’s family sucked into the maelstrom. The plot leads you from a gulag and its atrocities to the streets of a budding revolution in Budapest. The real question that arises during this novel, as well as with the questions asked at the Nuremberg trials, is can or should people be given a second chance? As the reviewer for the NY Times asked, “Is redemption possible for men like Leo? And, if so, should it be?” Denise Lehane in his review asks, “what is an ordinary man to do when his very existence makes him an apparatchik of institutionalized sadism?’
The last in the trilogy was published in January, 2012, Agent 6. This is by far the most ambitious of the three. Amazon.com picked it as one of the best books for January. The book begins with a flashback of how Leo was in the beginning, how he met Raisa and how she used him, by marrying him, to keep her self safe. But now it’s the Cold War and Raisa and Leo finally realize they’re in love. Raisa has proven herself to the state as a great teacher and has moved up in the ranks. So much so she and her daughters are allowed to take a trip to the United Nations. Leo warns her not to go. His old MGB thinking takes holds and he begs her not to go. What can go wrong? And with that we get a novel that spans three decades. It’s mostly a story of a tormented Leo, a man without focus, a man dogged by what happened in NYC and by his history. But it’s the Soviet Union after all and he is disgraced, therefore, he is not allowed to go to NYC to find out what happened. With this novel, I did get a little bogged down with the Russian occupation of Afghanistan. It does reveal, however, how easy it is for an occupying force to get bogged down. I think Smith was having so much fun writing about this that he forgot about the story. But eventually we get back to Leo and Raisa and Zoya and Elena. The ending will totally wring your heart. It is haunting…
Final word: DA! To all three…
The Secret Speech Published 2009
Agent 6 Published 2011
For those of the baby boom age, remember when we did drills in case of a nuclear bomb, we covered our heads and got under our desks? Remember how real and potentially catastrophic the Cuban missile crisis was? Do they still teach the cold war in school today? Do the kids even know about Stalin? I'm a wannabe history teacher...anyway...
I thought that since the hunkster, ex KGB punkster, Vladimir Putin, was once again in charge of mother Russia, I’d review the three secret police thrillers by Smith. I’m going to digress here to make a point. I recently finished a nonfiction book about the only North Korean prisoner to ever escape from a North Korean internment camp. He had been born there. So for him lying, tattling, turning on family, lack of love, lack of attachment was a way of life. There was no moral compass. For the people of Russia, they have lived this type of life since almost the beginning of their history. First the Tsars, then Lenin, Stalin, and the multitude of following leaders who kept the Russian people all under their thumbs and afraid to move or speak in fear of being turned in to the secret police, whether there was guilt or not. The Russian leaders looked at the state they created as a utopia, a workers’ paradise where only political crimes occurred.
Leo Stepanovich Demidov is a hero of the great patriotic war against Hitler. It’s now 1953 and he’s a MGB (KGB precursor) officer knowing that to stay safe he must be relentless in his job and never, ever question authority. While routinely investigating the death of a young boy, he is asked by the boy’s father to look further because he knows, he just knows, that the death is a murder. If Leo decides to do this, he could be thrown into a situation that could cost him his life as well as the lives of his wife and adopted daughters. Through further, surreptitious fact gathering, Leo begins to believe there is a real murder spree going on. When he brings this possibility up to his superiors, it’s NYET! Not in Soviet society! All is peace and calm and violent crime is only manifested in a capitalist society! Leo must follow his wife because she may be an enemy of the state (does he really trust her? Does she trust him?). Is he an enemy of the state by pursuing this case or is he (by the Soviets) considered a true hero because he tortures those he is told to torture without asking any questions? It’s a stifling and suffocating environment Smith creates with enough Stalin era violence and paranoia to abound. The book is based on the Rostov Ripper case. It’s the best of the three and really good enough to make you want to read The Secret Speech.
We are now going to get more up close and personal with Leo and his wife, Raisa, and their two adopted daughters, Zoya and Elena (their parents had been killed by Leo’s forces). The Secret Speech is set in 1956 and Leo now has a squad of homicide detectives helping him with cases. Supposedly Khrushchev gives a speech, behind closed doors, that decries Stalin era tactics and the Soviet Union will be more of a benevolent society. NYET! Say the old timers. But those that were tortured, exiled, and the families of those that were killed will not let the “old timers” get away with it. Mix that in with the criminal element and you’ve got a big pot of borsht. The catalyst to the story is that a member of this group remembers Leo and what he had done to someone they knew and loved. Reprisals begin getting Leo’s family sucked into the maelstrom. The plot leads you from a gulag and its atrocities to the streets of a budding revolution in Budapest. The real question that arises during this novel, as well as with the questions asked at the Nuremberg trials, is can or should people be given a second chance? As the reviewer for the NY Times asked, “Is redemption possible for men like Leo? And, if so, should it be?” Denise Lehane in his review asks, “what is an ordinary man to do when his very existence makes him an apparatchik of institutionalized sadism?’
The last in the trilogy was published in January, 2012, Agent 6. This is by far the most ambitious of the three. Amazon.com picked it as one of the best books for January. The book begins with a flashback of how Leo was in the beginning, how he met Raisa and how she used him, by marrying him, to keep her self safe. But now it’s the Cold War and Raisa and Leo finally realize they’re in love. Raisa has proven herself to the state as a great teacher and has moved up in the ranks. So much so she and her daughters are allowed to take a trip to the United Nations. Leo warns her not to go. His old MGB thinking takes holds and he begs her not to go. What can go wrong? And with that we get a novel that spans three decades. It’s mostly a story of a tormented Leo, a man without focus, a man dogged by what happened in NYC and by his history. But it’s the Soviet Union after all and he is disgraced, therefore, he is not allowed to go to NYC to find out what happened. With this novel, I did get a little bogged down with the Russian occupation of Afghanistan. It does reveal, however, how easy it is for an occupying force to get bogged down. I think Smith was having so much fun writing about this that he forgot about the story. But eventually we get back to Leo and Raisa and Zoya and Elena. The ending will totally wring your heart. It is haunting…
Final word: DA! To all three…
Sunday, May 13, 2012
Quirky Hotel Locations, Odd Pin Ups and Helpful Travel Gear
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When I traveled to Istanbul in 1996, I had heard that a new Four Seasons Hotel had recently opened...at the site of an old prison. The hotel is built on the site of the Sultanahmet Jail. The jail, built in 1918/1919, had great historical significance to Istanbul history. Therefore, when the site was picked for the hotel, all efforts were made to incorporate the prison history into the hotel. The best part about the hotel though is its location. It is minutes from the Blue Mosque, Hagia Sophia and Topkapi Palace. But the downside is all of the tourists swarming around.
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When I traveled to Istanbul in 1996, I had heard that a new Four Seasons Hotel had recently opened...at the site of an old prison. The hotel is built on the site of the Sultanahmet Jail. The jail, built in 1918/1919, had great historical significance to Istanbul history. Therefore, when the site was picked for the hotel, all efforts were made to incorporate the prison history into the hotel. The best part about the hotel though is its location. It is minutes from the Blue Mosque, Hagia Sophia and Topkapi Palace. But the downside is all of the tourists swarming around.
Wednesday, May 9, 2012
Crypts, Mummies and Bones...Sightseeing the Italian Way
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I don't know why certain cultures or religions love their bones but the Italians sure do. I remember my first trip to Rome in 1978, I think it was, and part of our tour was a visit to a Capuchin Crypt located under the church of Santa Maria della Concezione dei Cappuccini. It is located on the Via Veneto (very fashionable) and right down the street from the US Embassy. The Capuchins are an order of friars in the Catholic church. They are an off shoot of the Franciscans. Anyway, this crypt contains the skeletal remains of over 4000 friars.
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I don't know why certain cultures or religions love their bones but the Italians sure do. I remember my first trip to Rome in 1978, I think it was, and part of our tour was a visit to a Capuchin Crypt located under the church of Santa Maria della Concezione dei Cappuccini. It is located on the Via Veneto (very fashionable) and right down the street from the US Embassy. The Capuchins are an order of friars in the Catholic church. They are an off shoot of the Franciscans. Anyway, this crypt contains the skeletal remains of over 4000 friars.
Saturday, April 28, 2012
Warmed Toilet Seats, Old Coins and Cheaters...
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If you've not been to Ephesus, Turkey, it is one spot you need to experience. Started as a city in 550BC by the Greeks and then dominated by the Romans, it is the largest active excavation in the world. It is compactt therefore, easier to experience. We had been there in the early 1990's and at that point our guide told us that at one time the city had 330,000 inhabitants the majority of which were slaves. On this visit we were told 400,000. Maybe they adjusted the number, who knows. On both of our trips we had highly educated guides. On the first trip our guide was a professor of history and this time our guide was an engineer. Yes, we believed them because of the quality of the tours we booked. Anyway, this time we had friends with us who hadn't been. We get out of the bus and the heavens open. What should have been an hour to an hour and a half was 30minutes. Here's some of what my friends missed: The Greeks and Romans were ingenious and sneaky engineers. They built cisterns on the tops of the hills to catch rain water. It then flowed downhill to provide running water. At right there is a picture of the latrines. The seats were marble and therefore, cold in the winter. So, the slave owners would send their slaves down to the latrines and have them sit on the marble to warm it up. When it was warm, here came the owner. At their feet was running water for them to clean themselves. Read more...
If you've not been to Ephesus, Turkey, it is one spot you need to experience. Started as a city in 550BC by the Greeks and then dominated by the Romans, it is the largest active excavation in the world. It is compactt therefore, easier to experience. We had been there in the early 1990's and at that point our guide told us that at one time the city had 330,000 inhabitants the majority of which were slaves. On this visit we were told 400,000. Maybe they adjusted the number, who knows. On both of our trips we had highly educated guides. On the first trip our guide was a professor of history and this time our guide was an engineer. Yes, we believed them because of the quality of the tours we booked. Anyway, this time we had friends with us who hadn't been. We get out of the bus and the heavens open. What should have been an hour to an hour and a half was 30minutes. Here's some of what my friends missed: The Greeks and Romans were ingenious and sneaky engineers. They built cisterns on the tops of the hills to catch rain water. It then flowed downhill to provide running water. At right there is a picture of the latrines. The seats were marble and therefore, cold in the winter. So, the slave owners would send their slaves down to the latrines and have them sit on the marble to warm it up. When it was warm, here came the owner. At their feet was running water for them to clean themselves. Read more...
Thursday, April 26, 2012
Song List for The Fifty Shades Trilogy
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I should have included this in my last post. These lists are from EL James' website:
Fifty Shades of Grey:
Lakmé (Act I): Flower Duet- Alain Lombard, Mady Mesple, Danielle Millet & Orchestre du Théâtre National de l'Opéra-Comique- 50 Classics for Beginners
Sex On Fire- Kings of Leon -Only By the Night (Deluxe Version) Read more...
I should have included this in my last post. These lists are from EL James' website:
Fifty Shades of Grey:
Lakmé (Act I): Flower Duet- Alain Lombard, Mady Mesple, Danielle Millet & Orchestre du Théâtre National de l'Opéra-Comique- 50 Classics for Beginners
Sex On Fire- Kings of Leon -Only By the Night (Deluxe Version) Read more...
Wednesday, April 25, 2012
Kinky F**kery: My Book Review on The Fifty Shades Trilogy
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I was at my allergist’s office waiting for the time to pass after I had gotten my allergy shots. Since I was getting ready to go on vacation and looking for something to download for the long flights, I noticed another patient reading her e-book. I asked her what she was reading and she blushed. She said, “You’re going to think I’m silly but I’m reading the Fifty Shades Trilogy.” Now I had heard of the Trilogy and knew it had something to do with bondage. OK, a little light reading for the trip. I downloaded the first book and finished it within 2 days and then realized that I hadn’t downloaded the other two! Where can I find a Wi-Fi to connect to?!!! AHHHHH! Many of my friends have read the books and mostly it’s, “oh my.” And that will normally be accompanied by a huge blush.
So here’s the deal. E.L. James, a British mother of two read the Twilight series and saw the movies. She basically said “wow”. I want to do something like that but for adults. She began writing the book and publishing it on fan-published erotica sites. It became such an online phenomena that an Australian publisher won a bidding war to get them published and now Universal pictures has picked up the rights for $5 million and E.L. has script and casting approval. That’s something Stephanie Meyer didn’t even have. There is one book sold every second. Why have these books started such a craze? Well, in the US the books are being called “mom porn.” I guess that means that there are a lot of lusty housewives out there looking for something “different”. The basic premise is this: 21 year old, gawky, technophobic, Anastasia Steele meets 27 year old uber rich, extremely handsome, standoffish, domineering Christian Grey. We are repeatedly told about his stunning grey eyes, his stunning physique and his wavy thick hair. Oh my. But little is actually said about Ana’s looks except that she has long brown hair, she’s pale and has blue eyes too big for her face. So what does Christian see in Ana that enthralls him? You see he’s into BDSM, bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism. Christian has a bleak and dark past and when he was 15 he was seduced by an older lady who brought him into the BDSM world. He has no clue about having “vanilla” sex. He sees Ana as a submissive and wants her to become part of his world. Now, when E.L. was asked on 20/20 about is it appropriate to portray a young woman as a submissive she replied,” Well, women take control all day…they go to work, they care for the kids, they cook, they clean…it’s nice to every once in awhile give control over to someone else.” Many reviews have been written criticizing the novels on this level. The only thing I could say is that James could have made Grey and Anastasia older. Anastasia being 21 AND a virgin keep niggling at the back of my brain. She’s not a virgin for long…But other reviews have said that the book has great overtones about learning to compromise, that when it comes to sexuality there needs to be an openness between partners as to what is, as Christian would say, a “soft limit and a hard limit.” On a basic level (really basic) it’s about the evolving dynamics of two people falling (possibly) in love.
The writing is really, really bad. James admits this. She repeats herself time after time: Oh my, kinky f***kery, holy cr*p, Ana constantly biting her lower lip, her inner goddess is always doing back flips and his flashing grey eyes. It seems she gets erotically charged every time Christian comes around (OK, that’s loaded with some double entendres). And how many times can he grab a fist full of her hair and pull her head back?
So why then read the books? It’s purely guilty pleasures. A woman’s sexuality is awakened by a very experienced man (who has a Red Room of Pain). You get to follow their sexual exploits (with kinky f**kery) as well as their developing relationship. Plus there are some side stories of some interest. But the story is all Ana and Christian’s.
Buy or download Fifty Shades of Grey and see if it’s for you. It’s definitely not hard core but even if a little BDSM is too much for you, don't waste your money. Fifty Shades of Grey introduces you to Ana and Christian and their push and pull (OK stop with that) relationship. Fifty Shades Darker leads you to why Christian is the way he is and his learning to compromise and Fifty Shades Freed gives you the climax (stop that!) to the story. James wraps the last book up nicely by ending with Christian (in real time) experiencing his first meeting with Ana. That is where you learn what she really looks like and why he becomes entranced by her. (Jamie Dornan will play Christian and Dakota Johnson, Ana.)
Final take: I thoroughly enjoyed all three books. If the movie studios follow the books, the movies will have to be NC 17. And the big question is…who will play Christian and who will play Ana? James wants unknowns and I tend to agree with her. And if you're really into the novels, try this link to Goodreads where readers wrote in with their favorite quotes: https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/15732562-fifty-shades-of-grey .
I was at my allergist’s office waiting for the time to pass after I had gotten my allergy shots. Since I was getting ready to go on vacation and looking for something to download for the long flights, I noticed another patient reading her e-book. I asked her what she was reading and she blushed. She said, “You’re going to think I’m silly but I’m reading the Fifty Shades Trilogy.” Now I had heard of the Trilogy and knew it had something to do with bondage. OK, a little light reading for the trip. I downloaded the first book and finished it within 2 days and then realized that I hadn’t downloaded the other two! Where can I find a Wi-Fi to connect to?!!! AHHHHH! Many of my friends have read the books and mostly it’s, “oh my.” And that will normally be accompanied by a huge blush.
So here’s the deal. E.L. James, a British mother of two read the Twilight series and saw the movies. She basically said “wow”. I want to do something like that but for adults. She began writing the book and publishing it on fan-published erotica sites. It became such an online phenomena that an Australian publisher won a bidding war to get them published and now Universal pictures has picked up the rights for $5 million and E.L. has script and casting approval. That’s something Stephanie Meyer didn’t even have. There is one book sold every second. Why have these books started such a craze? Well, in the US the books are being called “mom porn.” I guess that means that there are a lot of lusty housewives out there looking for something “different”. The basic premise is this: 21 year old, gawky, technophobic, Anastasia Steele meets 27 year old uber rich, extremely handsome, standoffish, domineering Christian Grey. We are repeatedly told about his stunning grey eyes, his stunning physique and his wavy thick hair. Oh my. But little is actually said about Ana’s looks except that she has long brown hair, she’s pale and has blue eyes too big for her face. So what does Christian see in Ana that enthralls him? You see he’s into BDSM, bondage, dominance, sadism and masochism. Christian has a bleak and dark past and when he was 15 he was seduced by an older lady who brought him into the BDSM world. He has no clue about having “vanilla” sex. He sees Ana as a submissive and wants her to become part of his world. Now, when E.L. was asked on 20/20 about is it appropriate to portray a young woman as a submissive she replied,” Well, women take control all day…they go to work, they care for the kids, they cook, they clean…it’s nice to every once in awhile give control over to someone else.” Many reviews have been written criticizing the novels on this level. The only thing I could say is that James could have made Grey and Anastasia older. Anastasia being 21 AND a virgin keep niggling at the back of my brain. She’s not a virgin for long…But other reviews have said that the book has great overtones about learning to compromise, that when it comes to sexuality there needs to be an openness between partners as to what is, as Christian would say, a “soft limit and a hard limit.” On a basic level (really basic) it’s about the evolving dynamics of two people falling (possibly) in love.
The writing is really, really bad. James admits this. She repeats herself time after time: Oh my, kinky f***kery, holy cr*p, Ana constantly biting her lower lip, her inner goddess is always doing back flips and his flashing grey eyes. It seems she gets erotically charged every time Christian comes around (OK, that’s loaded with some double entendres). And how many times can he grab a fist full of her hair and pull her head back?
So why then read the books? It’s purely guilty pleasures. A woman’s sexuality is awakened by a very experienced man (who has a Red Room of Pain). You get to follow their sexual exploits (with kinky f**kery) as well as their developing relationship. Plus there are some side stories of some interest. But the story is all Ana and Christian’s.
Buy or download Fifty Shades of Grey and see if it’s for you. It’s definitely not hard core but even if a little BDSM is too much for you, don't waste your money. Fifty Shades of Grey introduces you to Ana and Christian and their push and pull (OK stop with that) relationship. Fifty Shades Darker leads you to why Christian is the way he is and his learning to compromise and Fifty Shades Freed gives you the climax (stop that!) to the story. James wraps the last book up nicely by ending with Christian (in real time) experiencing his first meeting with Ana. That is where you learn what she really looks like and why he becomes entranced by her. (Jamie Dornan will play Christian and Dakota Johnson, Ana.)
Final take: I thoroughly enjoyed all three books. If the movie studios follow the books, the movies will have to be NC 17. And the big question is…who will play Christian and who will play Ana? James wants unknowns and I tend to agree with her. And if you're really into the novels, try this link to Goodreads where readers wrote in with their favorite quotes: https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/15732562-fifty-shades-of-grey .
Monday, April 23, 2012
Hostile Cab Drivers,Helpful Locals and Mark Twain
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We all have stories to tell of hostile cab drivers whether NYC, Hong Kong or ISTANBUL. My girlfriend and I decided to head directly to the Grand Bazaar and we asked the concierge how much a cab would cost from the hotel to the Bazaar. He said pay no more than 20 Turkish lira (1.44 lira to the dollar). We verify with our driver that it will be MAXIMUM 20 lira. 16 lira it cost. After having fun getting lost in the maze of the Bazaar, we head outside to get a cab. The first cab driver: we got in the cab, asked to verify the price, 20 EURO! When we said no, he backed up at lightening speed so as not to lose his place in line, and shooed us out. Next cab driver:no. Next: no. Next: no. Finally I see a policeman and ask for his help. Would he really help? He also verified that we should pay no more than 20 lira. He asked 3 other cabs and they all said no. He finally shouted to a cab driver driving in the opposite direction to take us. He did at 16 lira. We quickly learned to only get cabs at hotels or restaurants. We had a great seafood meal at Sur Balik on the Bosporus. Yes, there are Starbucks but no commemorative Istanbul coffee mugs. Drat! Read more...
We all have stories to tell of hostile cab drivers whether NYC, Hong Kong or ISTANBUL. My girlfriend and I decided to head directly to the Grand Bazaar and we asked the concierge how much a cab would cost from the hotel to the Bazaar. He said pay no more than 20 Turkish lira (1.44 lira to the dollar). We verify with our driver that it will be MAXIMUM 20 lira. 16 lira it cost. After having fun getting lost in the maze of the Bazaar, we head outside to get a cab. The first cab driver: we got in the cab, asked to verify the price, 20 EURO! When we said no, he backed up at lightening speed so as not to lose his place in line, and shooed us out. Next cab driver:no. Next: no. Next: no. Finally I see a policeman and ask for his help. Would he really help? He also verified that we should pay no more than 20 lira. He asked 3 other cabs and they all said no. He finally shouted to a cab driver driving in the opposite direction to take us. He did at 16 lira. We quickly learned to only get cabs at hotels or restaurants. We had a great seafood meal at Sur Balik on the Bosporus. Yes, there are Starbucks but no commemorative Istanbul coffee mugs. Drat! Read more...
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Saturday, April 7, 2012
Book Review: Phantom by Jo Nesbo
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There was a time when Jo Nesbo was called “the next Stieg Larsson”. Not any more. The Norwegian crime writer has sold over 14 million books worldwide as well as having been translated into 40 languages. Since I began reading Nesbo last year, I've found that his publisher has been playing fast and loose with publishing dates. In Nesbo’s novels featuring the detective Harry Hole, there are 9. But his publisher will publish a new Harry Hole novel in the UK and US before publishing an old one. It makes it very hard to try and keep up with where Harry was the last time you saw him. Now let’s deal with the name, Harry Hole. There are some people in the US who would put this bull’s eye of a name on their kid. I had to find out if this was the name used in the Norwegian language novels. I wrote a review on Amazon UK and asked if someone would respond to my question, “Is his name really Harry Hole or is it Lars something?” I got an answer from a UK reader. He led me to the BBC Worldwide Book Club which had an interview with Nesbo. He was asked to pronounce Harry Hole in Norwegian. Here it is phonetically: Hurree Who-la. Read more...
There was a time when Jo Nesbo was called “the next Stieg Larsson”. Not any more. The Norwegian crime writer has sold over 14 million books worldwide as well as having been translated into 40 languages. Since I began reading Nesbo last year, I've found that his publisher has been playing fast and loose with publishing dates. In Nesbo’s novels featuring the detective Harry Hole, there are 9. But his publisher will publish a new Harry Hole novel in the UK and US before publishing an old one. It makes it very hard to try and keep up with where Harry was the last time you saw him. Now let’s deal with the name, Harry Hole. There are some people in the US who would put this bull’s eye of a name on their kid. I had to find out if this was the name used in the Norwegian language novels. I wrote a review on Amazon UK and asked if someone would respond to my question, “Is his name really Harry Hole or is it Lars something?” I got an answer from a UK reader. He led me to the BBC Worldwide Book Club which had an interview with Nesbo. He was asked to pronounce Harry Hole in Norwegian. Here it is phonetically: Hurree Who-la. Read more...
Tuesday, March 20, 2012
A Bic Lighter, a Large Suitcase and a Screaming Salesman
We are about to embark on a vacation that begins in Istanbul, Turkey. I've been fortunate to have visited that great city on a number of occasions. But what I want to try to bring to life for you is our first shopping experience in the Grand Bazaar. The building of the Bazaar began in 1455 and was completed in 1730. It has 61 covered streets and over 3000 shops. It is not a place to go for the feint of heart or for the OC set. If you don't know what you want or haven't scoured a map in advance or hired a guide, it will be like trying to see all of Pompeii in a few hours. Can't be done. One section is rugs, another semi-precious, precious jewels, another silver, leather, ceramics, souvenirs. Read more...
Friday, March 9, 2012
Book Review: Miss Peregrine's Home for Peculiar Children
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Take some old, but real, weird pictures
Add a rocky, bog ridden isolated island off of the coast of Wales
Add an old orphanage
Stir and you get creepy. Let's deal with the old but real pictures that are scattered throughout the book. The author, Ransom Riggs, began collecting what is called "found photography". That is pictures taken by others that you "find" at flea markets, antique shows etc. When his publisher suggested he create a story around his "found" photos, he began constructing a world based on an orphanage that housed children with "peculiar" powers. The cast of the book would consist of the children he "found" in his photos.

He ended up using 44 of the pictures he found. Read more...
Take some old, but real, weird pictures
Add a rocky, bog ridden isolated island off of the coast of Wales
Add an old orphanage
Stir and you get creepy. Let's deal with the old but real pictures that are scattered throughout the book. The author, Ransom Riggs, began collecting what is called "found photography". That is pictures taken by others that you "find" at flea markets, antique shows etc. When his publisher suggested he create a story around his "found" photos, he began constructing a world based on an orphanage that housed children with "peculiar" powers. The cast of the book would consist of the children he "found" in his photos.
He ended up using 44 of the pictures he found. Read more...
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Book Club Bliss: Bibliochix
I can't believe that the book club I belong to, The Bibliochix, has been together 10 years. We were once so young...I'd like to be clever and try to tie in book titles throughout the blog. Something like: After our summer get together, we certainly didn't try to Purge. Or, it's a good thing that Mildred didn't try to Pierce her navel. We don't have a Mildred but you get the picture, and I'm sure you're saying, don't do that. OK. We are a sort of diverse group. I'm the oldest by blah blah blah years. But let's just say the majority of the chix are not baby boomers, some have adult children, some have high school aged, some have high powered jobs (including being the moms they are), some are entrepreneurs, and some, as an aside, raise chickens and bees. I'm the baby boomer and proudly retired (at a young age I might add). We have, at times, 10-12 members and, at times, may have only 4-5 members attend a discussion. But that's OK. I'm also the only one who lives in the suburbs. At first we tried meeting at Starbucks but it was just too noisy. So, one of the girls suggested we meet at the Ritz Carlton in their bar called "the Library".
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Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Every Memory Soon Becomes Fiction
While doing my reading on Ernest Hemingway, I found this quote of his, " Every memory soon becomes fiction."
I guess looking back is like looking through the wrong end of a telescope. This thought manifested itself this past weekend when I went to Texas to visit with my sisters, cousins, nieces and nephews. But let me digress. My father's side of the family is large. He had 6 brothers and sisters and with most of them living and fighting through Dubyah Dubyah Two
, post war, they went forth and multiplied. Produced quite a few baby boomers they did. When my father was still alive and we would have family reunions, the most frequently shouted phrase between he and his siblings was, "you don't know what you're talking about!" At those reunions, the person who got heard was the one who shouted above the fray. It inevitably was about a memory one aunt or uncle had that the others did not agree with. When I met with my cousins, one brought up the fact that my two aunts didn't know what to do about their memories and wondered if they were still correct, and they so wished their brother, my Uncle C, was still alive because he was the arbitrator of "the truth". It pains me to say this, but one of these days my beloved aunts and uncle will no longer be with us to tell us tales of their growing up. Of their life during the depression or what it was like to live through "the war" years or humorous stories about my dear grandma and grandpa. I don't care if their memories are somewhat skewed. They are my heritage and they become my memories.
As my mother once told me, "one of these days you will be the senior generation." OMG. So it was very interesting when I had my reunion with my family and how easily the words came out from the future "senior generation": "you don't know what you're talking about!" Every memory does soon become fiction...Thanks a pant load Ernest.
As my mother once told me, "one of these days you will be the senior generation." OMG. So it was very interesting when I had my reunion with my family and how easily the words came out from the future "senior generation": "you don't know what you're talking about!" Every memory does soon become fiction...Thanks a pant load Ernest.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
The World Was Never the Same: Events That Changed "My" Life
I ordered from "The Great Courses" (college lectures you listen to in your car or home) The World Was Never the Same: Events That Changed History. Professor J. Fears from the University of Oklahoma selected 36 events beginning in 1750BC through today that in some way he feels impacted and changed the world.
The Battle of Vienna (1683) anyone? It got me to thinking. Now that's a dangerous thing to do. It got me to thinking about what major events IN MY LIFE changed MY life. Were they decisions I consciously made or was I fortunate (to use a favorite Obama word) or had dumb/bad luck? Read more...
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Two Mann Booker Award Winners: Julian Barnes and Michael Ondaatje
The Sense of an Ending by Julian Barnes 
2011 Mann Booker Award Winner
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The Cat’s Table by Michael Ondaatje
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Winner of the Mann Booker Prize in 1992
For The English Patient
Maybe I shouldn’t have mentioned The English Patient because you may go running from this review like Elaine did on Seinfeld when she went to see the movie with John Peterman. But please don’t. First let me explain why I’m doing two reviews at once. As you can see, both books are rather short. They both have a similar theme: Older men who are now looking back on their lives and contemplating if they’d made the right choices. Read more...
2011 Mann Booker Award Winner
160p
The Cat’s Table by Michael Ondaatje
256p
Winner of the Mann Booker Prize in 1992
For The English Patient
Maybe I shouldn’t have mentioned The English Patient because you may go running from this review like Elaine did on Seinfeld when she went to see the movie with John Peterman. But please don’t. First let me explain why I’m doing two reviews at once. As you can see, both books are rather short. They both have a similar theme: Older men who are now looking back on their lives and contemplating if they’d made the right choices. Read more...
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